I have finally come to the conclusion that I am neither pro-choice nor pro-life. I am pro-selfcontrol.

Pro-selfcontrol means each and very individual regardless of race, religion or creed has control over their own body. We live in a world where we expect people to practice self control when it comes to drinking and driving, personal space, human rights and any social behavior that may violate the rights of others.

We start teaching children self-control at an early age. It starts with potty training. in fact potty training is so important it is a developmental milestone.

Then we expect kids to sit still in church and to not throw tantrums when they don’t get what they want.

Tell me why abortion is so widely accepted. Is it not true that each and every indivdual has control over their own sexuality. If this is not true, then rape would not be a crime.

Have self control and you will know before a pregnancy if you are able to raise a child.

Have self control and you will know before hand if your current partner is ready to make a serious commitment to you.

If we have laws against rape and drunk-driving then there should be a law against killing an innocent baby, who would not have been concieved, it two conscenting adults had thought about the consequences of their action.

I am asking you to leave a message. I am developing this theory and I want to hear what you have to say. Stay tuned for more.



  1. Hello there!

    I have been trying to present posts at my forum about celibacy but it seems that many sistas just CAN NOT get with the notion of voluntarily removing themselves from the sex scene… there are so many sistas who have sex as an attempt to distract themselves from emotional hunger. In their minds… offering sex is a way to get affection and offering sex is a way to feel male validation. I want to encourage our sistas to redefine their sexual personhood in ways that reflect that they have become truly liberated and that sex is a not a reactive activity to feed into unresolved issues.

    Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!

  2. please keep on fighting the good fight. We must begin the revoluntion. A peacful one!!!!

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