The Old Woman Who Live in a Shoe

There was an old woman
Who lived in a shoe
She has so many children
She didn’t know what to do
She gave then some broth
Without any bread
She whipped them all soundly
And sent the to bed

Read the nursery rhyme above and picture this woman, she is a mother, a sister, a daughter. If you think you have never seen a woman like this. Go to your local high schools, go to the nearest low income housing building in your community, go to your local super market.There are women all around who look this woman. They are living in poverty and having children for men who do not want the responsibility.

It is time we acted as strong women. We need to tell teenage girls that it is not ok to get pregnant out of wedlock. We need to tell them to avoid risky behavior and we need to tell them that they deserve more than a guy who will profess love and sleep with them. Then walk away.

Think about this, are we really showing our young women how to love themselves to the point that they will not let anything or anyone come in the way of them finding physical, emotional and spiritual success?

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Sex free Weekend

A Night Out on the Town

Ladies a night out on the town can be a very fun and exciting. You get all of your girls together and you decided were to go. It can be especially rewarding after a long week of work, work, work.
Remember, for women there are several reasons why we go out. For virgins the motives are pretty simple. We go out to have fun, socialize and meet new people. We do not go out to meet men (if it happens that is a wonderful additive to the evening). Our main purpose for painting the town is to unwind and release pent up energy.

One thing we should all remember ladies is safety first. You go with me, you leave with me. It is a small rule I have for all of my friends. I am not going to let you leave the club or concert or anywhere for that matter with a man you just met. Wait for day light, he will either still be there or gone. Either way it is in your best interest.

Some ways to have fun, virgin or just not ready for sex tonight:

1. Wear something that flatters your figure, but dose not say cheap. Looking cheap brings unwanted negative attention.

2. Choose a club or concert that has a good reputation for entertainment. There is nothing worse than going to a club or concert and being bored out of your mind.

3. Do remember that there are other ways to entertain yourself, like going to a jazz bar, or local restaurant with live local entertainment.

4. Stay with the group (you can dance with guys but come back to the group afterwards).

5. Group dances are always fun. I have met the best of characters when my group of friend and I were all on the dance floor.

6. Do not drink if you don’t know how to hold your liquor. It looks tacky and you become a burden to your friends.

7. Share the drinks tab, money is tight so if everyone pitches in there will be fun to go around.

8. Do not accept a drink from a guy. No, they are not all trying to poison you or looking for payment in return. The thing is, you are out to have fun, you don’t want a guy standing there hanging around for the rest of the evening. Remember, you are not leaving with him at the end of the evening. Plus, you never know, he might want something in return.

9. At the end of the evening, make sure you gather all of your crew (yes even the tipsy once leaning on an eligible bachelor) and head home. I hope that you all had a fun, night and you are good for another two months or so.

See, virgins can have just as much fun as the average girl. We just don’t have the mission of meeting or leaving with a man.

The New Look of a Virgin

The New Look of a Virgin

Today’s virgin is a strong woman. She is goal driven, meticulous, seeks justice for all, and is trustworthy. She is also pure in heart, spirit mind and soul. It is her job and duty to be the exacter of social justice and lead by example. You can believe that a man will never bring her down, her goals in life are to be the best daughter, sister, employer, employee, student, co-worker and human that she can every be.

However, most of all today’s virgin is a woman on an ultimate mission, a mission that so many other powerful women that have come before her have undertaken. Nothing and absolutely nothing can deter her from this mission. There are two things. Only two things to remember about this woman. She will do anything and I mean any thing to protect the dignity and the sovereignty of her mission. What is this mission you ask? Well let me tell you.

Her mission is to be the best mother and lover she can be. This woman will go to many lengths to see that this happens. There is nothing in the world that she holds more sacred than her man, marriage and her children. Oh yes she is a professional, and she will work, but her children and husband will always come first.

NO MATTER WHAT!!!!

Here are some ways to make sure you stay a virgin:

1. Make up your mind not to have sex before you go out with the girls.

2. If a man wants to have a long-term relationship with you, be honest and tell him up front. If you want it, put a ring on it.

3. Let ever man that you are open to talk and have fun, but not open for sex (that way they don’t have any expectations)

4. Always try and go out with your man, don’t stay indoors and in intimate settings

5. After a wonderful date, leave him at the door, no nightcaps.

6. It is all in the body language; say you are sexy but not wanting.

(Stay tuned for more)